Plangak!

Ever had those 'plangak' moments?

You know, like...

~you sit side by side on the beach, close your eyes and feel the wind on your face and say "isn't this relaxing?", then he says something like, "the sun is the center of the solar system..."
--> PLANGAK! :-s

~you talk about excitedly upon knowing he's also read a book you like and you say "I love the book! Its message was so perceptive and profound.." then he says something like, "who let the dogs out? (who! who!)"
-->PLANGAK! :-s

Face it dearie, if all you have are 'plangak' moments with him, then admit there is no chemistry, no sparks, no nothing. I'm not even sure you can be buddies at the least. You have to be on the same wavelength to understand and appreciate each other, moreso, have a conversation in the first place. It should be naturally light so if you feel there is too much effort, don't push it, let go.

yea, sad, I know. =(